The Friendship Code
Tuesday, September 16, 2008
RESPECT:
* Treat your friend the way you would like to be treated.
* Friends DON'T push you around.
* If your friend wants to try a new sport, but you do not like that sport, do not take her out of it just because you do not like it. Try to see the alternative side(s).
* Always ask them what they want to do if they are your guest!
* Don't argue with their choice of boyfriend. Even if you hate the guy, respect your friend's feelings for him. Loophole = unless you know that they are a player; then you tell your friend.
* You need to be able to talk freely, be able to act like yourselves.
* Friends should respect everything about each other: fashions, possessions, decisions, religions, etc.
* Don't think that you're better than your friend.
TRUST AND HONESTY:
* A friend can't talk trash about you behind your back.
* Never start talkin' about something and then say... ohh never mind I can't tell you!
* Tell them when something is wrong with their physical appearance (such as a booger).
* Keep secrets, or its mutually assured destruction. (...unless your friend is doing something dangerous.)
* No breaking promises.
* Don't steal my stuff.
* If you know what you are going to tell them will hurt them but you have to tell them, choose your words VERY carefully.
* Before you do something that you think s/he won't like, like dating his 'X,' ask if it's ok.
* Don't lie to them, tell them what you think.
+ 1 rule is NEVER ditch a friend 4 a date!
+ Never ruin your friendship over a girl/guy.
+ Friends are forever and boyfriend's/girlfriend's aren't.
+ Never ever make your friend chose between their boyfriend or girlfriend and you.
+ Never date the boy/girl that your friend has a huge crush on unless they are over him.
+ If your friend is going out with sum1, do not try to break them up.
+ Never like your friend's boyfriend, and if you can't help it, then keep that thought to yourself
+ Don't change who you are for a guy/girl.
Source: http://aubreymcarey.multiply.com/journal/item/27/friendship_code